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		<title>By: Robert</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:19:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I looked like a rasin in a bowl of milk

this is not a test!! I won&#039;t drink the &quot;kool aid&quot; of self will anymore. Due to alcoholism and all my other &quot;isms&quot;, this way had conditioned me into making bad desicions as well as bad habits. Once the obessesion and complusion to use was lifted, I needed to detox from my old lifestlye. I then understood a higher power gave me freedom from those rituals of using. I realize today, I&#039;m living in the golden years. Recovery is absolutely phenomenal when you work for it rather than milk it.</description>
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<p>this is not a test!! I won&#8217;t drink the &#8220;kool aid&#8221; of self will anymore. Due to alcoholism and all my other &#8220;isms&#8221;, this way had conditioned me into making bad desicions as well as bad habits. Once the obessesion and complusion to use was lifted, I needed to detox from my old lifestlye. I then understood a higher power gave me freedom from those rituals of using. I realize today, I&#8217;m living in the golden years. Recovery is absolutely phenomenal when you work for it rather than milk it.
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		<title>By: Daniel Kitchen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel Kitchen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 15:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lately I have had some major financial problems and I have really been caught in the fears that come with that. I have put God to the side as I try and make it thru this mess I&#039;ve made for myself.  This reading reminds me that I cannot do this on my own and also be free from these fears that stem from that. Great website here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lately I have had some major financial problems and I have really been caught in the fears that come with that. I have put God to the side as I try and make it thru this mess I&#8217;ve made for myself.  This reading reminds me that I cannot do this on my own and also be free from these fears that stem from that. Great website here.
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		<title>By: circusref (Bobe)</title>
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		<dc:creator>circusref (Bobe)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 13:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Self-reliance.  What a deceptive notion.  The results of self-reliance are people mentally and emotionally crippled.  Self-reliance can&#039;t feed you or give you what life needs.  Self-reliance puts us at death&#039;s doorstep.  

I was self reliant, especially when I drank.  Trying to be self reliant when sober is our insanity.  It&#039;s more helpful to say that no person is an island.

Pretending that we are self-reliant makes it really hard (Impossible) to let go and let god (the power greater than oursleves).

It goes against all that I  learned and believe to surrender, to grovel, to give up.  I will continue to protest turning my fears, hurts, frustrations, etc. to the god of my understanding - until I am more mentally sober!

Come as a little child!  I want to laugh but instead I cry - help me god.

Once I can give my life away, god will restore my life in abundance - joyous and free.

I&#039;m working on my own advice.   Bobe
In search of identity - to be on not to be!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Self-reliance.  What a deceptive notion.  The results of self-reliance are people mentally and emotionally crippled.  Self-reliance can&#8217;t feed you or give you what life needs.  Self-reliance puts us at death&#8217;s doorstep.  </p>
<p>I was self reliant, especially when I drank.  Trying to be self reliant when sober is our insanity.  It&#8217;s more helpful to say that no person is an island.</p>
<p>Pretending that we are self-reliant makes it really hard (Impossible) to let go and let god (the power greater than oursleves).</p>
<p>It goes against all that I  learned and believe to surrender, to grovel, to give up.  I will continue to protest turning my fears, hurts, frustrations, etc. to the god of my understanding &#8211; until I am more mentally sober!</p>
<p>Come as a little child!  I want to laugh but instead I cry &#8211; help me god.</p>
<p>Once I can give my life away, god will restore my life in abundance &#8211; joyous and free.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m working on my own advice.   Bobe<br />
In search of identity &#8211; to be on not to be!
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		<title>By: Alcomum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alcomum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 09:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always try to keep in my head that when I&#039;m agitated or doubtful (both fear based) I should take pause and ask. And it frequently falls back out of my head again! Leaving me to rely on myself, which never works. But I pray every day for God to remind me. Pause. Ask. Everything else will just have to wait.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always try to keep in my head that when I&#8217;m agitated or doubtful (both fear based) I should take pause and ask. And it frequently falls back out of my head again! Leaving me to rely on myself, which never works. But I pray every day for God to remind me. Pause. Ask. Everything else will just have to wait.
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